Dear Annie: My gut tells me my husband is hiding something from me

To Annie, please:

My partner and I have been together for nine years. He seems so aloof lately, and I can’t help but find it bothersome. It all changed around a year ago. He became secretive with his buddies, started hiding his phone, had several social media accounts, etc.

I’ve been having gut feelings for a while, and when I discussed them with him, he advised me to never believe them. This confused me because my intuition has always been correct throughout my life. I’ve brought up his altered behavior with him numerous times, but each time he gets angry and snaps at me or ignores me.

He and I are still together. I could spend the rest of my life with this man because I love him so much. However, I’ve reached a stage in my life when I’m prepared to mature and realize my goals. Although I would really like for him to be by my side for that, I can’t help but notice how he’s acting. I simply want to know what’s going on, but I don’t think I’ll ever truly understand or get the truth from him.

It’s said that what occurs in the shadows always finds its way to the light. However, when? It would be heartbreaking to work on things just to discover later that my intuition was correct. I’m not sure what to do right now, but I want to trust him and spend my latter years with him. Are you able to assist? Divided Between Doubt and Love

To Torn,

Your intuition has been telling you something, and you should believe it. Your partner has been deceiving you into doubting yourself by ignoring all of the warning signs you’ve seen. In a good, loving relationship, he would be making every effort to calm your fears and establish his reliability. In actuality, he is unable to be.

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