Dear Abby: Feeling closer to my S.O.’s parent – is it emotional cheating?

Greetings, Abby

I’ve always felt a connection to my partner’s parents. However, I now feel a stronger emotional bond with them than with my partner. Am I cheating on my significant other, or is this healthy? IN THE MIDWEST CONFUSED

DEAR CONFUSED:

Did you mean that you are physically attracted to your S.O. or that you have more in common with their parent than with your S.O. when you stated “emotionally connected”? Put an end to the romance if it’s the latter. If you don’t, your S.O.’s family will be in disarray, and it’s probably going to end badly for everyone.

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