Dear Annie: Not all ‘solicitors’ have bad intentions. Cut them a break.

To Annie, please:

Although I have long enjoyed your column, I thought a recent answer regarding how to handle people knocking on doors lacked some helpful background information.

I’ve done a lot of political outreach work, so I know how annoying uninvited visits can be. Canvassing for elections or other causes, however, is a laborious task, and most people who do it do so with good intentions. Instead of arguing or interfering, the majority are there for a quick, civil discussion. Asking for the name of the group, which is frequently mentioned in the literature they give or leave behind, is something I advise doing right away if someone does act inappropriately.

Additionally, since political and religious canvassers aren’t selling anything, they usually aren’t subject to the no soliciting signs rule. They can even go to places without any soliciting signs and ask for donations in several states. Signs like “don’t knock” or “no politics/religion” are more effective for people who don’t want to be contacted because they are universal.

I make this statement for both homeowners and the ardent people who devote hours to canvassing in order to engage with their communities. There is something wonderful about people devoting their time and energy to their ideas, even if we disagree with their causes. Having your door knocked on may be a minor inconvenience, but it frequently shows how dedicated someone is to their principles. The best course of action if you would prefer not to interact is to open the door, gently request that they not come back, and make a note of their organization’s name in case further action is required.

I appreciate your insightful piece and the way you promote discussions on limits and community. Not a Lawyer, But an Activist

To the Activist:

I appreciate your insightful letter and your nice words. You’ve presented a convincing argument for the need of someone with a strong belief, and I always think it’s vital to weigh both sides of an issue.

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